After years of trying to become parents, we decided to build our family through adoption. We have been excited about the possibilities ever since. Recently, we became approved as waiting parents!! (Which, in the adoption world means we are Paper Pregnant!) Now we wait, hope, wish, and ... write.
We have established this blog for 3 reasons/3 sets of readers.
1) To provide a way for prospective birth parents and your families to learn more about us as you make the difficult decision to place a child. It is impossible to state how much we respect and admire you! We would be honored to be parents of your child if you choose us. Thank you for taking the time to learn more about us and look at our profile.
2) To provide our friends and family with information about our journey to parenthood. We are also hoping our friends and family will keep us in mind and remember that we hope to grow our family through adoption. Please share this blog and our adoption contact information with others making an adoption plan.
3) For ourselves. Over the past 6 years, we have had our share of ups & downs. A few of you have heard tales of our funny family building stories. As we now wait for our “forever family”, we have decided to chronicle the journey and share reflections of the process. If a few of you are interested in following along, even better!
This is our first real experience with both blogging and adoption...and this venue will be a learning process for both. Actually, blogging and the adoption process have much in common. Neither are easy tasks. Both require perseverance, deep self-reflection, maintenance, and patience. Both will be approached with thoughtfulness, care, concern, and yes, the occasional mistake. Both depend on elements of timing & perhaps some luck.
As most of you know, we are also both college educators. As a result, we approach most situations as "valuable life lessons." In an effort to remain (become?) witty, our posts will reflect the names of our lessons in our adoption journey. Therefore, our blog posts will mirror "course names" of the adoption process. Perhaps they may be a bit amusing, though we realize most will just be a tad corny!
Thanks for taking time to visit, read, and learn more about us and our journey to parenthood!
Thanks for taking time to visit, read, and learn more about us and our journey to parenthood!